10 Questions to Ask Before Your Next IEP Meeting

A useful meeting does not require a perfect script. A short list of questions can help you understand the discussion and leave with clear next steps. Choose the prompts that fit your situation.

1. What strengths and interests should guide this plan?
2. What information or observations support the concern being discussed?
3. What additional evaluation or information is being considered, and why?
4. How will the proposed support help with participation, learning, or access?
5. How will progress or effectiveness be monitored?
6. Who should I contact if a question comes up after the meeting?
7. What options did the team consider?
8. What does this unfamiliar term mean in plain language?
9. What is the next step, who is responsible, and when should we reconnect?
10. Where can I review the applicable procedural safeguards and current state guidance?

Prepare a one-page note

Write down your top concerns, the questions you most want answered, and any relevant examples. You can ask for a pause or clarification during the conversation. If you need an interpreter or another access support, ask the school about arrangements in advance.

IDEA provides for parent participation and access to relevant education records. The details depend on the circumstances and applicable requirements. Consider using the meeting checklist in the free downloads area.